When to spank your girlfriend

I love to spank my wife in a G-string or little tiny boy shorts. Then after some swats, I tell her I'm taking down her panties now--that she'll be completely exposed and vulnerable to strong right arm. You get the idea. For me it's foreplay with the emphasis on play. Sexual Health. Share Facebook.

You should also know that, like the dirty talk, many women love spanking. It is not because they want to protect their image and be thought of as whores that we must lie to ourselves: a good spanking, it spices up the sex. Moreover, even if a spanking establishes a kind of relationship of dominance between the man and the woman, it is not a hardcore BDSM practice. First of all, during sex, do not ask a woman for permission to spank her. Do as if it was something normal, natural… we are not there to make her feel that she is a deviant or none of all that. Also demonstrate adaptability: feel the ground, put your hand on her buttocks, give a little pat during the action… and, if she reacts well, increase in intensity. If you go very strong from the start, your partner is likely to get scared, feel humiliated and it can cut everything off.

The sex has been wonderful, but she has a thing about wanting me to spank her. At first I laughed, as I thought it was quite an odd request. But it was clear she was serious, and this is where the problem lies. I have spanked her a few times and, though it arouses her, it makes me feel guilty. I feel bad for all sorts of reasons.

I am a chick and my boyfriend says he needs some ideas so what do you have to say? BTW we have both agreed that this would be a good idea and will be married soon. So if all your going to say is how its so bad stop answering. If it's a punishment spanking, then the primary element of it should be humiliation. That's the point of a punishment spanking.