But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist , to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous. Now on to this week's question: learning how to touch your clitoris.
How to Touch the Clitoris: Moves, Positions, and Orgasms
Few men are instructed on correctly stimulating the clitoris. In porn, women are shown writhing in pleasure as dudes do an in and out thrust with no clitoral contact. Remember that South Park episode where all the boys go on an expedition to find the clitoris? Then they hear or read a general description, explaining that the clitoris is outside the vagina, towards the top. They must go forward with confidence. So men keep rubbing the labia like DJ decks.
21 Things Everyone With A Clitoris Should Do At Least Once
Daisy Buchanan revisits these teenage kicks. Words by Daisy Buchanan. It begins to work.
After all, getting busy with your own bod can help you chuck unwanted inhibitions. Throw out any taboos or guilt surrounding masturbation right now. Pleasuring yourself has health benefits that go beyond the body — it can help untangle shame that affects confidence with yourself, partnered sex, or in a relationship.