There was sort of a window of time for a woman to learn how to be good at using her digits to please her partner. But if you missed that window to get some instruction, you may find yourself a fully-grown woman, completely baffled as to what to do when you put your hand on your man. Pressure is key, so lube is necessary at all times. Silicon lasts the longest so you may want to use that. Having to stop and grab another handful of lube every twenty seconds can kill the mood.
Hands down, hand jobs have the potential to be the most stressful of all the sex acts. Unlike the mighty and powerful blow job , they are not something that only you can do for your partner unless he's really flexible, in which case, lucky lady! And the scene can often play out as awkward: There you are, halfheartedly jerking your hands in an attempt to create a pleasurable experience for your partner — one that he had down to a science by age Before you let a defeatist attitude keep you from trying, remember: a lot of men love getting hand jobs, just like how you probably like require some digital action, too. Here are a few things to keep in mind the next time you offer to give your guy a hand.
Guys mastered the art of the hand job back before they ever had their first girlfriend. So as it turns out, they critique women's attempts pretty, well, hard. We asked nine guys what they really think of hand jobs—and what they had to say was surprising, funny, and an oddly helpful lesson in anatomy.
I went on a date with a guy recently, and we started making out on his couch. Not because I didn't want him to go there, but because all I could think was, Ohmigod, what if he wants a hand job? The thing is, I suck at giving hand jobs. And it was painful! For both of us!